Understanding men's libido
Men's love is sex, men's sex is love
Marriage is a pledge of exclusive sex with a woman
When they were young, women and men had a lot of the same thing. But as men and women go through puberty, they start to change. The first time a woman fell in love with a man, she didn't know, but when my man who swore to love only me looked at a pretty woman passing by, or when I had a foreboding that another woman had entered my man's heart, the woman said,'A man and a woman They learn that they are different, and they feel betrayed. Why did that happen to my man? So, was his oath to me a lie? Was he really cheating on me? Where the hell is the man I loved going, and the man who swears to love me meets another woman and falls in love or has sex with another woman?
In the hypothalamus of the male brain, the space devoted to sexual impulses is 2.5 times larger than that of the female brain. A man's brain is ready to seize sexual opportunities as sexual thoughts wander, day or night. Sex doesn't always lead to love, but men's sex is an essential part of reaching love. Although a little exaggerated,'a man's love is sex, and a man's sex is love'.
If a man decides to marry a woman, there may be other benefits of marrying her, but most of them do so because they want to have exclusive sex with her. In other words, she is married because she wants to have sex with her to the fullest, without taking her to other men, making her her own woman, and not being disturbed by others. So for a man, marriage is a pledge to have exclusive sex with a woman.
But after marriage, if she refuses to have sex with him, whether because of parenting or because of fatigue, he becomes disappointed with her and doubts her love. At first he will try to understand, soothe, and beg, but if she doesn't respond to his demands, he will give up having sex with her. In other words, leaving her to raise only the child, he will either work hard, find another sex partner, or decide to divorce.
Research shows that men want an average of 14 sexual partners over their lifetime, while women want an average of 1-2. According to a report by sex researchers, men are not only stimulated by sexual imaginations more strongly than women, but also want to pursue adventures sexually. In other words, the rate that men want group sex is 13 times higher than women, and oral sex men want twice as often as women. Scientists say men have elevated testosterone levels when they look for attractive women. The Dutch researchers have concluded that it is enough to have a comfortable conversation with an attractive woman for five minutes to increase testosterone levels in men. It was confirmed that 1/5 second was enough. Is it possible that such a sexually tactile man loves only one woman in his lifetime? Maybe the marriage system is not for men. The woman who led a man with these characteristics to marry is perhaps the same as taming a wild horse and bringing it into the house.
For man, marriage is a woman's victory. But, just because a woman marries a man, will the man's'wild horse'-like trait disappear? Would a married man's testosterone only react to his wife? Not like that. Men's testosterone reacts to all women. She responds to pornographic actresses, reacts to pretty women she saw on the train, and reacts to coworkers. I am only rationally restraining myself. Is it easy to live with my man with testosterone like this wild horse for life? Not like that.
My husband's testosterone is always wriggling
I shouldn't be too obsessive to doubt my husband, but I shouldn't be too loose with my man. Especially if you are a woman who has a warm, charming and wonderful husband. My husband's testosterone can wriggle at any time, and women trying to seduce my husband can overflow.
If my husband is having regular sex with me, most of the time I don't have to worry. Just as if you eat rice when you're hungry, you're not very interested in snacks, so if a man's libido is filled, he may not be interested in other women, and you can focus on your own work. However, if for some reason the man's libido has not been met, the man may be hungry as if he were hungry. In other words, if any conditions can satisfy your sexual desire, you are always ready to ravenously satisfy your desires. That is why a wife should not assume that her husband will not have sexual desire because she has no sexual desire. It's as if you shouldn't think that your husband won't be hungry just because you're not hungry. If you don't have sex with your husband and your husband doesn't offer you sex, you have to think that he's either unable to get an erection or that he has some other solution. Most healthy men are hungry at every meal and at least every 2-3 days. If I don't want my husband to be taken away by another woman, understanding and satisfying his libido is the most basic way a wife loves her husband. You shouldn't think you've done your wife's duty by just feeding your husband and doing the laundry. It is an act that does not understand a man's sexual desire and does not know the'man's way of love'.
If a man is unable to express his sexual desire and is denied sex by his wife every time, and is too moral or incompetent to have love or sex with another woman, he will behave toward'bad' rather than'sad'. . In other words, they hide their unhappiness with alcohol, overworking exercise, work, and anger, and act in aggressive and hurtful ways, or even suicide through depression. Such hidden depression can cause various problems such as physical illness, cancer, cirrhosis of the liver, myocardial infarction, cerebral hemorrhage, alcoholism, domestic violence, lack of intimacy, and neglect of work life.
Men are weaker in communication than women and lack the ability to express their feelings. So, rather than negotiating with his wife and creating conditions for sex, they choose to cheat with another woman or give up sex with their wife. Both are bad choices. But the wife only blames her husband for this situation. However, when we try to figure out the reason, it is often caused by a lack of understanding of the wife's husband. Of course, it's not just men. If you are already married because you love a man, you are talking about how to love that man. If you want to save your husband's energy, if you want to be loved by him, have sex with him. If you don't want to lose your husband, have sex with him. That's the most basic way to love, understand, energize, and not take my husband away by another woman.
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